Starting a relationship with a single mother has its perks, one of them is that she is more than understanding when something comes up. More than likely she will hope for that in you as well. She desires to be desired, but sometimes getting the stars to align for your perfect date, may take a little more planning than what you are used to. Be flexible with her, Gentleman. She is probably stretched pretty thin between work and the kids, and the best trait she needs right now in a mate is understanding and flexibility. Show her how flexible you can be to her needs and schedule and she may just show you how flexible she can be when the kids are asleep!