There are many people out there with some serious skeletons in their closet, and not the rattling bones kind. I’m wanting to stress the importance of getting a background check done on whomever you are seeing, male or female. You never know when your neurotic partner may have some serious problem they aren’t telling you about, i.e. assault charges, drug charges, sex charges, etc. It’s important you get the truth on who you are seeing so that your safety and the safety of your kids (if you have some) is kept and you maintain control of any situation before it gets out of hand.
Remember, trust your instincts, if it looks like chicken, tastes like chicken, smells like fish, it’s not chicken; and find out why it’s not chicken.