It is difficult for some to get back into the swing of things after a long difficult marriage and divorce. One may have concerns with trusting and respecting others, especially if their previous spouse was “abusive” in some manner or distrusting (cheating/affairs).
Many of us really want to open ourselves back up to those around us, but find it difficult, in fear of being hurt again. It is important to remember that many people prefer to hold off on sexual relationships until after a few meetings (you know, the getting to know you stages). I have personally found in my four months of joining the dating scene, that many opening lines are “So, When can we have sex?!”
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